I think it's alot easier to place the blame on yourself than someone else - not the other way around.
If you blame someone else, you'll get stubborn and say you hate them or you'll never forgive them.
But when you blame yourself, you can shrug it off since theres nothing you can do about it.
And you won't get angry that way, either. It's easier... I guess I'm just not being fair.

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